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Intuitions and a Higher Power Can Really Happen

During our first 6 weeks, strange events would unfold that brought us closer together. At first, it was the typical thing that can happen in a relationship. Finishing each other's sentences, finding out we have similar likes, and learning about what we have in common. However, something special would develop that I/We never experienced before. We would soon learn we have intuitive love. The kind of love that goes beyond the day-to-day coincidences or happenings. We had very real events that went beyond the world we currently live in.

It all started one night when we were sleeping. I believe it was the second week we were together. I had a dream after we hung up around 2 AM. I would call Anna and for some reason felt like I needed to share with her my dream. Anna would be stunned by the fact that she at the very same time had the same dream as I had. When I say the same dream, we literally shared our love together in our sleep 400 miles apart from each other. 

Similar events would grow and we developed some type of metaphysical connection. We would know when we were apart when one was upset, sad, happy. You name it, and we would call each other only to discover we had a connection that allowed the other to know from a long distance when we needed each other. In good times and not so good, we developed a 6th sense for each other. And no, we did not see dead people. 

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